A situationship is an undefined relationship between two people who are yet to be identified as a couple. Finding yourself in one can be so lonely and challenging. In the world we are right now it seems like a normal practice that so many are now adopting. Are you one of those people? Where do you find yourself? Here are some signs why we think you are still stuck in a situationship rather than a relationship.
Fear of Commitment: This is the number one factor why most people find themselves in entangled situationship. When both parties are still holding on to the hurt of the past and just want that physical and sexual connection from each other nothing more.
Unclear Expectations: This is when both parties are not clear enough about their expectations from the onset. There was never a proper understanding of what you are doing. The theme of the friendship is just tagged ‘VIBES’ and before you know what is going on you are already catching feelings and asking for more than what you bargained for.
Timing: In this case, some external factors such as career goals, personal growth, or other life circumstances might make committing to a serious relationship challenging things like this might make you conclude so fast. Time and commitment need to be sacrificed to build a beautiful relationship.
Difficulty in Letting Go: Despite all the visible red flags, constant emotional connection and physical attraction will not make you want to leave or end the situationship, But you cannot eat your cake and have it.
As the saying goes, no gree for anybody this year. If a situationship does not fulfill your needs or align with your goals, then you have to reassess and make decisions that prioritize your emotional well-being and happiness.