Nigerian singer Brymo has defended his sex-for-music request from fellow singer Simi describing it as “an artistic pursuit.”
Brymo’s comments come after he sparked controversy in July when he shared an audio clip on social media revealing that he had turned down a collaboration with Simi because she refused to sleep with him.
In a recent interview with TVC, Brymo said that he had made the request to Simi because he wanted to “create an intense” musical experience. He also claimed that he had made similar requests to other female singers, but that he had not slept with any of them.
“I didn’t know they —Simi and Adekunle Gold, were together,” Brymo said. “When I saw her, I said no features except I am laying with the woman I am working with so it can really be intense. Did she not sleep with Adekunle Gold? Is that not why the music is extra good? But she said no, and I was like okay, bye-bye and then she left.”
Brymo’s comments have been met with mixed reactions. Some people have accused him of misogyny and sexual harassment, while others have defended him, saying that he is simply a misunderstood artist.
It is important to note that Brymo’s claims about Simi and Adekunle Gold’s relationship have not been verified. Simi has not publicly commented on Brymo’s allegations.
Whether or not Brymo’s request to Simi was an “artistic pursuit” is a matter of opinion. However, it is clear that his comments have caused a lot of hurt and anger. It is important to remember that sexual advances towards someone who has not consented are never acceptable.
It is also important to note that Brymo’s comments reinforce harmful stereotypes about women in the music industry. The idea that women need to sleep with men in order to be successful is simply not true. There are many talented female singers who have achieved success without having to compromise their values.
Brymo’s comments are a reminder that we need to continue to challenge sexism and sexual harassment in the music industry. We need to create a safe and supportive environment for all artists, regardless of gender.