There is absolutely nothing wrong with placing value on your looks and appearance. Physical attraction is important in the start of any relationship, but if it is the only glue bonding you two together, then it will weaken and break quickly. The flame may burn strongly, but shortly. There is more to being sexy
These are the actual traits that make a woman sexy in the eyes of men
CONFIDENCE
Being confident is important. A strong purposeful walk with your head held high and a wide welcoming smile go a long way. Confidence is more than just a strong presence, it is the foundation for a strong life. Success is rooted in your self-confidence and the ability to go after what you want. Very sexy.
AMBITION
Ambition signifies purpose and a direction in life. Ambition is sexy for a driven man because he has his own goals and sees you as a teammate to take on the world with.
THEY EXUDE PASSION
It is very sexy when you see passion in a woman. Passion for her life, family, friends and her work. To see a woman in her element and truly loving what she’s doing is sexy.
THEY ARE KIND
Treating people with kindness is a rare quality in the modern society. That makes it sexy when a woman shows compassion to others. It shows heart and a level of depth that could never be made up for by a solely beautiful exterior.
HONESTY
How long can one stay in a relationship with a beautiful or handsome liar? If you can’t trust your partner, or believe what they say, you can’t construct a lasting relationship with them? A honest woman has plenty self-respect to be honest with you as well as herself. She exudes sexiness through her integrity and loyalty.
THEY ARE CLASSY
Class really has nothing to do with the price tag on your outfit, it is about the dignity in which you carry yourself and the level of respect you give to people around you. It doesn’t matter what kind of car you drive, what part of town you live in; if you are classy, your sexiness will radiate.
INTELLIGENCE
There is no denying that looks are what initially draws us to people. If conversations lack depth or intrigue we often fill our time with physical activity together. But it is impossible to build a real connection or a lasting relationship with someone on attraction alone. Being intellectually challenging and having the ability to hold real discussions is quite sexy