Uzor Arukwe, a Nigerian actor, has responded to criticism about his performance in the recently released YouTube movie “Love in Every Word,” which has generated a lot of discussion online.

The film explores themes of love, responsibility, and financial commitment in partnerships and has become a huge hit since its premiere, especially among female viewers. Its portrayal of men, however, has drawn criticism from some male viewers, sparking a contentious discussion on social media for days.

Since then, the film’s critics have maintained that Arukwe’s portrayal of his character—a kind, giving “Odoguwu who fights for and spends money on his woman”—does not reflect reality.

The actor was contacted by an X user who criticised him for depicting Anambra males as “simps”—”people who try too hard to do what other people want, especially in a romantic relationship”—in this way.

“Anambra men are not simps. Your movie is liked only my ladies, who have always had the illusion of an odogwu that’ll spend his last dime on them,” said the X user

In response, Arukwe defended his character and the movie’s message, saying, “Taking care of your woman and spending money on her doesn’t make you a simp. It only makes you a responsible man. How else do you show love to your partner if you can’t take care of their needs from the abundance of your wealth?”

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The film, as well as Arukwe’s response, has since reignited debates about financial responsibility in relationships, with many applauding his stance while others argue that financial provision should not define love or masculinity.

See reactions below:

“I knew that movie will really get so many people who treats their partners badly triggered”

“The movie triggered a lot of broke badly raised irresponsible men”

“Stingy men never rest since this movie came out”

“Odogwu has spoken! Someone said the rest are still asking what do you bring to the table”

“In the Movie, Odogwu parara wasn’t just a spender. He was a Good listener, he was intentional, he communicated his feelings, he was romantic, he was reachable. So those of you men, who are triggered by his spending,biko OPEN YOUR EYES TO LEARN OTHER THINGS WHICH ODOGWU did. Which most of you don’t do these in relationships”