Nigerian entrepreneur and media personality Simi Sanya has sparked conversations online after advising women to prioritize generosity over wealth when choosing a partner.

Speaking during the February 14 episode of a podcast hosted by Meristem Nigeria, Simi shared her thoughts on love, money, and long term partnership, urging women not to focus solely on how much a man earns.

According to her, character and willingness to give matter more than a large bank account.

In the now viral clip, Simi explained that she would rather be with a man who earns 100,000 naira but can comfortably give 60,000 naira out of care and intention, than someone extremely wealthy who is unwilling to share or support his partner.

Her comment quickly gained traction on social media, with many users debating the practicality and implications of her statement. While some critics described the advice as materialistic or one sided, others defended her perspective, saying generosity is a reflection of emotional investment and partnership.

Simi and her fiancé Femi Dapson also discussed how they approach finances in their relationship. The couple, who met at a wedding and announced their engagement last year, spoke openly about blending romance with smart money decisions.

They highlighted the importance of joint saving, investing wisely, and building wealth together rather than relying on one partner. Their conversation centered on transparency, shared goals, and long term financial planning.

As the clip circulated across Instagram and X, reactions poured in.

Some social media users argued that financial stability should remain a top priority in relationships, especially given the current economic realities. Others praised Simi for emphasizing generosity and emotional support over status and luxury.

Supporters noted that in challenging economic times, a partner who is thoughtful and willing to share what they have can create a stronger foundation than one who simply has access to wealth.

The discussion has since evolved beyond the podcast clip, touching on broader themes around modern dating expectations, gender roles, and financial partnership in relationships.

While critics continue to question the framing of her advice, many listeners say the core message was about mindset and willingness to build together.

Neither Simi nor Meristem Nigeria has issued further statements addressing the online debate, but the episode continues to trend across digital platforms as audiences weigh in on what truly matters in choosing a life partner.