This was sent in by an OSG reader and this is the first ever, Please read and help her out.
Hello Olori, My name is Faith, i work in a consultant film in Lagos state, i am age 28. There is this cute and sexy guy who works close to my office, he is a legal practitioner and one of the best in the neighborhood.
I first met him, in a fast food restaurant, where i usually have lunch, we happened to order the same kind of food that day and coincidentally sat at the same table. We joked and exchange contact.
One conversation led to another and we became quite close, he is a very principled and Godly person, he is kind and he has got a charming smile too. He is the perfect kind of man i like and i have often times fantasize about us being together.
But the problem is, he sees and treat me like a friend and would not even look at me with a second thought. I don’t know what else to do, as i have often times tried to get his attention but all proved abortive. I have thought of telling him how i feel about him but i am scared that he will turn me down as he is very principled. Please what should i do? as i can’t get him off my mind.
Dear OSG writer, I would advise you face your fear and express how you feel to him. Express either face-to-face at lunch,or as a text msg, or BBM chat,or…the list is endless. Expressing your mind lifts the burden off your frail shoulders and dumps the burden on him. Bt if it seems impossible for you to summon courage, there is a Plan B: change resturants, delete his number and all possible contacts. Time and lack of communication would dissipate your feelings for him. I might be wrong,but that’s my opinion. Cheers