Relationship writer, social commentator, and thought leader Solomon Buchi is celebrating a huge personal milestone as he and his wife, Adeola, mark their third wedding anniversary. The couple’s journey, which has unfolded publicly over the years, continues to resonate with many who admire their honesty, faith, and growth-centered approach to marriage.

Solomon and Adeola first met in 2021, a connection that quickly grew into a committed relationship. By 2022, they were engaged, and in 2023, they officially tied the knot in a wedding ceremony officiated by Pastor Emmanuel Iren. Their love story reached another beautiful chapter in 2024 with the birth of their son, further strengthening the bond they have built together.

To commemorate their third anniversary, Solomon shared a deeply reflective message on Instagram, describing marriage to Adeola as his most meaningful earthly achievement. According to him, marriage did not merely add joy to his life; it grounded him, challenged his character, and reshaped his understanding of love, patience, and personal growth.

He candidly reflected on their first year of marriage, describing it as rocky but necessary. Like many couples, he admitted they entered marriage with an overestimation of their own virtues, only to be confronted with real-life imperfections. Through disagreements, cultural differences, and varying preferences, Solomon noted that what sustained them was their shared commitment to godly values, alongside the support of wise friends, pastors, and mentors.

As the years progressed, their relationship evolved beyond romantic passion into something deeper. Solomon revealed that the past year has been marked by the development of genuine friendship: one filled with humour, sibling-like banter, and emotional safety. He emphasized that friendship, not fleeting passion, is what sustains a marriage when the excitement fades and reality sets in.

One of the lessons Solomon highlighted is the importance of not taking oneself too seriously in marriage. According to him, ease, laughter, and humility create room for friendship to thrive, and that friendship becomes the anchor when emotions fluctuate.

Expressing gratitude, Solomon thanked everyone who has supported their relationship over the years. He also jokingly added that his only regret is not marrying Adeola earlier, ending his message with optimism and a hopeful declaration of “70 more anniversaries to go.”

Solomon and Adeola’s story continues to inspire couples navigating love, faith, and growth reminding many that lasting marriages are built on honesty, friendship, and shared values, not perfection.

Happy 3rd Wedding Anniversary to the Buchis!