Nkechi Blessing Sunday (NBS), a Nigerian actress, has voiced her annoyance at having missed numerous chances for commercial endorsements because of her previous internet conduct.
The actress, who was once well-known for her outspokenness and involvement in social media scandals, said that she now feels sorrow for some of her past behaviour.
Her professional reputation appears to have suffered as a result of her frequent public arguments with former partners and industry colleagues.
Nkechi Blessing disclosed in a heartbreaking video posted to her official Instagram page that although some people express interest in collaborating with her at first, they eventually back out after consulting with others.
She clarified that rather than starting arguments, her online difficulties resulted from her defending herself against disparaging depictions by former love partners.
According to the actress, she has never purposely dragged someone online but only responds when she feels assaulted.
She is currently dealing with the fallout from her previous interactions as possible business partnerships are lost because of her projected internet presence.
She said:
โBefore whatever relationship I had that went viral online, Iโve had several relationships with people that didnโt even make it online and the relationship ended and then just one that came online and made headlines, people are categorising on it. Why am I saying this? I meet someone today that likes me and wants to help me, not sexual, just normal people that like me that didnโt meet me online, and you know in life if you want to do something with somebody, either business, relationship or anything, you will seek third party opinion like โthis person I met can you tell me some things about herโ and you hear things like โah! Run away from her o, she will drag you onlineโ why? I am not blaming anybody because this is my doing, na me cause am, but then again, whatever relationship that came online and became a topic, wasnโt because I wanted it to be like that, it ended months before the outburst, meaning I had already moved on with my life, not wanting anything to come out in the open but the other party needed it to so that he could feel good about himself then that was me trying to defend myself because the internet never forgets. I wonโt have someone speak ill about my person and I will not come to defend myself. If it were to be now, I would probably ignore because this is the life Iโm living now, ignoring every negative vibes and just focusing on positivity only, but it has been affecting me. Imagine someone wants to work with me and they seek third party opinion and they hear things like โah! That controversial girl! Sheโs not somebody you can work withโ.โ
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Nkechi Blessing expressed that she can no longer tolerate the negativity directed at her. She encouraged people to get to know her personally rather than judging her based on online perceptions, emphasizing that she is genuinely a kind person.She said:
โI can no longer take it, it is enough, I know I made all of you see me like that but that is not who I am. Allow me to have friends and business partners in peace, let them know me by themselves, that bad person wey una dey call me for internet, let them experience it themselves. If not be by the grace of God, I for no dey see food chop because I know how many deals I have lost but Godโs grace keeps me going, it is enough. At least I have shown traces of changes for the past two years.โ
Nkechi Blessing expressed her apologies to those who view her as a bother and requested that they allow her the opportunity to collaborate with them. In her words:
โThis is my sincere apology to everybody that has seen me as an idiot, a nuisance and a notoriety. Please I beg you in the name of God, if you see someone that wants to work with me, give them the benefit of doubt, tell them โknow her by yourselfโ, I am a very sweet person to work with.โ
See the video below:
See some comments below:
@Blancoavenue: โEveryone deserves grace โค๏ธ.โ
@Garcia17z: โUna no know ni many of una go suffer this tin๐any small tin u don quick post ur personal life for internet.โ
@Ateentuu: โLol all those people that advised their friends against getting close to you did their friends a great favour lol.โ
@Augustamaryehimen: โInternet never forget ๐ข.โ
@Priscy_ia: โI wish some content creators can learn from thisโฆ.the internet never forgets.โ
@Mhzginia: โThatโs why itโs best to be careful about what you put out here on these social media streets.โ
@Lifeofnenye: โEvery action displayed on the media has positive and negative consequences and this is hers , ( Negative consequences).โ
@Sumptuousdee: โYou gon learn ๐.โ
@Cutesandie: โReally meaning of โExperience is the best teacherโ glad she has learnt and hopefully changed for the better.โ
@Theo_ijay: โYou use your own hand spoil your future because of impatience, bad character and bad mouthโฆ.. You see yourself, reputation ruined and sadly internet never forgets๐ข.โ
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