NAIJA WOMEN SHARE THEIR FIRST DATE EXPERIENCES ABOUT CONTROLLING MEN
Nigerian women have taken to the popular micro-blogging platform, Twitter, to share their first date experiences.
A young lady identified as Akah Pearl on the platform had shared her experience of a man being a controlling with a woman even when they are just getting to know each other and it got other women sharing their experiences too.
According to a lot of them, the men they met started giving orders on their first dates.
Read the responses below:
This one that I met this Friday with microwaved English is trying to dictate how I should save his name on my phone,what I should wear, who I should talk to and that I should wear pant.. Pant ooh! I hate pant with all passion. I just blocked him and faced front. https://t.co/uXhgpSGind
— Your Kaduna girlfriend. formerly fairlyused (@sister_hyldaah) November 10, 2019
I went out with this guy once.
The next day he was telling me how he expects me to inform him of my whereabouts whenever/if i'm going out. https://t.co/5cNGqvoUJQ— Odili Somto Emma (@Somto__O) November 9, 2019
The AUDACITY!!!
I met one guy from twitter and we just went on one date, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I didn’t give any response. After 2days, he sent me lengthy texts of why no man will ever want me and how I don’t respect his authority. I’m 5’8 and he is 5’5 & ugly. https://t.co/jvk4d9gr05
— BAD INFLUENCE ? (@AkahPearl) November 9, 2019
I admire their confidence. Some raggedy fellow walked up to me in uni (back when I had time to be listening to randoms) and in the span of 5 mins, he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend but I'll have to stop wearing shorts like the ones I had on. Just like that. https://t.co/5gRsEk2qE3
— Narcissus (@aziliTheBee) November 9, 2019
A man told me, while I was on a date with him that I was currently not wife material because wife materials are sitting at home not eating dinner with men at restaurants and that I would have to stop that if I wanted to be with him ??? https://t.co/x4V4dQ2c28
— Oshun of Evangelista (@__MJDr) November 9, 2019
I once met someone who on our first date, said to me
“I hope you’re willing to give up this your career and i’ll set up a business for you. I travel a lot and I need my babe to be with me all the time. This one that you’re always very busy”
That was also our last date. https://t.co/caQea8KUeo
— Toni Tones (@iamTONITONES) November 9, 2019
Reminds me of the one that was already telling me how much his mum loves eforiro& pounded yam& how he hopes I'll make it for her the 1st time I visit her. Let's not forget how he doesn't want me to have a busy career.
On the 1st date ooo! I haven't even agreed to date him o.— Mo Lukaku! (@Pricey_Mona) November 9, 2019
I went out with this guy once.
The next day he was telling me how he expects me to inform him of my whereabouts whenever/if i'm going out. https://t.co/5cNGqvoUJQ— Odili Somto Emma (@Somto__O) November 9, 2019
On a first date, a guy said “you know can’t be sleeping with anyone else, right?”
I told him “uncle calm down, I’m here for the food” ?
Controlling people are the worst…. https://t.co/7csttwoP2W
— 'Déróunké (@ronniebee3) November 10, 2019
This reminds me of when someone told my roommate to change her name because of some weird theory he had. On the first day of meeting her????????
On the very first day.
The nerve https://t.co/drcB9Kkjbk— Nyaniba? (@Efua_Aggrey) November 10, 2019
I was talking to someone I just met not too long ago on the phone and when I hung up he called me back and said “never hang up on me ever again! It irritates me” In a very fatherly and authoritative tone I was like “hoooooorr you get mind o” ? https://t.co/INGBOOl4yf
— ??Light Of The World?????? (@queenkonggg_) November 10, 2019
I once met one that told me If i’m with him my phone cannot ring after 8pm. I shouldn’t type “ loool” instead I should use “hahaha”. He doesn’t like his women wearing G-strings but full covered undies. Man had a long list of DONT’S barely 24hrs after meeting him.
— The Attorney ?? (@TheLilyKing) November 10, 2019
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