Shortly after I started doing my vlogs on relationships a common question I started getting from women was if they should outrightly tell a guy they like that they like him. The question came in different forms. “Should I tell him I like him?” “How do you let a Naija guy know that you’re feeling him?” “Why did he start acting funny after I told him I liked him?” And no matter what form the question came in it often stomped me because the answer isn’t a simple yes or no. There are a variety of factors that need to be taken into consideration and questions need to be answered before telling a guy that you like him.
Of course there are some bold ladies that won’t think twice about telling a guy that they’re feeling him, but for the vast majority it can be as dreadful as pulling teeth. Questions arise like, What if he laughs at me? What if he tells his friends? What if he rejects me? These are all valid questions stemming from cogent concerns but the truth is you can actually tell a guy you like him in 2018 as long as it’s timed right and you go about it the right way.
In this week’s episode of ‘JUST TRYING YO HELP A SISTA OUT’ I talk about the dynamics of telling a guy you like him, the possible outcomes from such a conversation and its pros & cons. Check out the video on Youtube and IGTV and let me know if you think my tips were helpful.