Relationships

Top Tips For Your First Date

First Date

First impression they say last longer so first dates are very important as they are the determinant of you actually getting into a relationship. These tips are to help you actually crush the first date and possibly get you a relationship

  • BE AN ENGAGING CONVERSATIONALIST

Some ladies like the strong and silent men but definitely not on a first date. You don’t want to come off as shy or boring. One of the purpose of having a first date is to talk about each other and shared interests. As much as you are meant to speak up, don’t be a talkative and dominate the conversation.

  •   KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF

If you have a wandering hand, kindly keep it to yourself on behalf of the lady you will be meeting. This is a date killer, ladies don’t want to be touched by people they hardly know. If at any point you feel the need to, ask for permission first.

  • TAKE IT EASY ON THE ALCOHOL

One of the first things a lady needs to know about you should not be that you are an alcoholic. It really does not matter if you know how to hold your drink, it is best that you take just a glass of wine for the entire evening. Getting drunk will only make you look like a fool.

First Date

  • TRY NOT TO BRAG

No one likes braggarts, they tend to be very annoying. Your date does not need to know about your bank account balance or the number of cars you have. It is easy to like humble guys, try to be one.

  • TAKE THE ENTHUSIASM DOWN A NOTCH

Enthusiasm is actually quite good because it shows you are really interested in the date but don’t show too much as it might actually scare her. Some people believe when the enthusiasm is too much, it might actually be fake. Try to be original as well as slow down on the enthusiasm.

  • BE A GENTLEMAN

Ladies really still expect chivalry, don’t slack on your manners. Hold the door for her, don’t talk down to waiters, and don’t spend the entire date glued to your phone. These are the things she will look out for, so be on your best behavior.

 

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