As a single person in Lagos, I’ve realised that when we’re out on the town voraciously hunting for our dream guy or girl we don’t always look out for the right things. We spend more time thinking about things like what that ideal person will look like physically, what income bracket they should be in, what part of town they should reside in and so on that we often overlook important things like the quality of their character.
In this week’s episode of ‘Just trying to help a sista’ out I talk about a recent discussion with a group of single women and their concerns about finding good men with genuine character. Finding a good man I believe starts with his values and understanding what kind of man he shapes himself after. Whether he’s modeled after a Denzel or a Barack or an RMD J. Get the gist of it all in the video below.