Boxes of chocolate, red roses, and romantic dinners may be the usual symbols of Valentine’s Day, but if you ask me, the best part of this romantic holiday is the X-rated element: SEX
Making the time for sex can be a great way to show your partner how much you care and appreciate them. Here are 10 Valentine’s Day sex ideas that are worth planning for
- Plan a sex position extravaganza: A wonderful way to prolong sex is to switch up your positions.
- Go lingerie shopping together: Lingerie shops are sexy places — the mere act of walking into one with your partner and browsing endless rows of silk and lace is basically foreplay.
- Try something you’ve never done before: Enjoying a new experience together is a surefire way to make memories.
- Play a sex game: Holidays give people a reason to be silly and over-the-top, so use Valentine’s Day as your excuse to play sexy games that let you try new things together.
- Plan a sexy staycation: When brainstorming Valentine’s Day date ideas that are anything but boring, a weekend getaway sounds pretty ideal, but it’s definitely not necessary if you’re looking for a long, drawn-out sexual experience.
- Eat dessert off your partner: When looking for a night that prioritizes pleasure over tradition, skip the restaurant and use one another’s bodies to enjoy dessert. I recommend using classic Valentine’s Day sweets, like whipped cream, chocolate sauce, and strawberries.
- Give an erotic massage: While going out for a professional couple’s massage is a wonderful Valentine’s Day date idea, for a more intimate sex-based evening (and to save some cash), give each other erotic massages.
- Act out your role-play fantasies: From doctor/patient to French maid, role-playing on Valentine’s Day is the perfect way to step out of your norms and turn your night into hours of eroticism.
- Use a blindfold: Blindfolding is a simple way to incorporate sensory deprivation into your play, and it adds a fun power dynamic: The blindfolded partner can be dominated by the one doing the blindfolding (with verbal consent, of course).